In a conversation with an old friend this week, I was reminded of my own advice as I shared with her about a decision I was making. “What are you waiting for? The timing couldn’t be any more perfect!” she said. “If I’m honest, I guess I have some fear about it,” I admitted, to her dismay. “You? What are you talking about? You are one of the most courageous people I know!” she said emphatically. Unbeknownst to her, the conviction of her statement woke something inside of me. “You don’t let fear stop you. What are you talking about?”
Her words were few, but they were the jolt I needed. Sometimes, you need to be reminded of who you are and your track record of perseverance. If you’re still here, you’ve no doubt conquered some big decisions. If you are in decision mode this week, I want to remind you of this:
It’s possible to think too hard about a decision.
If it is time to move forward, yet you find yourself going back to the drawing board, asking the same questions, mulling over what’s already been mulled over, you’re probably thinking too hard. If the decision is important to you, fear is inevitable. But it’s not a stop sign. Your decision could be a next step that takes you from one season into the next. There will be some uncertainty. You will be out of your comfort zone. But soon enough, you’ll have a new comfort zone – and a new reality. It’s all a part of the process. Embrace it. Make your move. Expect fear. And do it anyway.
My challenge to you this week:
Don’t overthink it. Move forward with the decision that’s pressing you.
Journal about it:
What decision are you overthinking? What are you afraid will happen if you move forward with your decision now? Who is the wise friend who can speak truth that will encourage you to stop procrastinating and start moving forward? Leave your comments below; I’d love to hear from you!
